Luckily, society has a huge set of predefined rules and restrictions concerning gender. Pick and mix from these as you see fit to make sure your child gender role fits into your world view.
Remember: your child's sexuality IS your business!
Remember: your child's sexuality IS your business!
Staying Straight
You must make abundantly clear to your child that this is a serious area where there will be absolutely no talking back. Straying from the role that you have ordained for your child is a serious transgression that will be prosecuted to the utmost extent of your laws, up to and including excommunication.
The Impossible Possibility
Mainstream media have been propagating the idea that gender roles other than the classical male/female ones not only exist, but are acceptable. If your child has fallen prey to this type of thinking, consider sending them to a reeducation camp or trusted professional for correction.
Madonna / Whore Dichotomy
This paradigm offers a broad range of images, insults, expectations and punishments with which to goad your female child.
There is no middle ground; teach your child not to expect nuances or leeway here. Even small whorish gestures such as wearing makeup places her solidly at the whore end of the spectrum. Dangling the madonna carrot with the promise you will love your daughter if she just lives up to this unattainable image will set her up for a lifetime of moral guilt, leaving her susceptible to your demands. |
Power and Pansies
If your child is male, you need to evaluate him and decide whether he is too masculine or too effeminate.
If you do not like traditional strong masculine types, teach your son to keep his voice soft, discourage physical exercise of any type, select bookish hobbies for him that will limit contact to more boisterous boys and make sure that his clothing precludes him from being viewed as masculine. Conversely, if your son is a weak pansy and you want him to man up, push him into manly activities of your choosing, harden him with cold showers, quash any emotions he dares to show and severely punish tears. |
Psychological Chastity Belts
Whatever their gender, your child should not be sullying that body or your relationship by taking up sexual relations too soon (or at all).
Thankfully, the insecurity you have fostered using all the various techniques on this site will make it difficult to impossible for them to trust themselves to find a suitable mate that you approve of. Nevertheless, regularly communicate to your child that sex is wrong, sinful, prohibited, likely to damage them and you, and that even minor activities like kissing someone instantly puts them at peril. |